Emotional IMmaturity

Demolocke’s Agenda Article/Post Caveat (Read First Please: Click the Link)

We humans are driven by emotions. We can lay claim to our human, logical, side but in truth it is a misdirection because even then it is about emotions that are overplayed with a perception of logic.

Emotions drive everything and it is the level of intensity that dictates. When we are in our proverbial logic driven human mind we have merely suppressed our emotions to a manageable level that allows logic to appear as dominant yet, like the deep mind, it still drives us.

Herein lies where we have emotional maturity. WM allows us to tilt the scales toward what we perceive as logic, maturity and understanding that allows us to survive. 

EIM is emotional immaturity that I attribute to our monkey brain where emotions that are illogical, unfair and the mainstay of the "othering" of ... others. 

In our leaders we expect a certain amount of control, discipline and MATURITY. Especially maturity because we need that trait most for our very survival. When dealing with other humans of such diversity derived from modern social structures and the cultures, beliefs and needs we can only connect with a maturity from a low level of emotional maturity.

EIM, is where conflict, war and violence live that creates such a volatile and dangerous environment that assures a total lack of continuity, complete chaos and a high threat to tribal survivability.

We, our current state of affairs, demonstrates that we are trapped at an increasingly growing level of EIM. We, our society, have lost our respect for ourselves and by our very actions have lost all respect from our neighboring nations. 

This creates, for me, a conundrum in that I can’t in all good conscious vote for either candidate on the ballot. I find it shameful that both, and the parties as well, have resorted to the school yard verbal argument of emotional immature children running solely on emotions not yet conditioned to work in a grown up social environment we call modern society. Where both are facing one another shouting louder and louder how their dad is stronger, their dad is tougher and their perspective dads’ can whup add on the others dad! The real shame is that most of the social order are following the herd by engaging in such shenanigans and school yard immaturity. 

I don’t really care what they do on their own time and in private or even semi-private because I have learned over time that the most capable of people who lead, actually lead, can sometimes have traits that are not so leader oriented. Only a very, very few can lay claim to having no perceived faults, very few. 

The shame is that we as a society are caught up in the mind-state often referred to as, Compliance Professional trappings of a negative nature. This is called, Social Approval, we tend to follow the few in the herd, those few who tend to dominate the arena with their rhetoric of loud immaturity, thereby by association as a collective trigger their own subconscious tapes, click-whirr, and just follow the crowd. The bad thing is, that puts an emotionally immature person in a leader ship role. We need better.